As stated, you could try and PM Redrum but I think he is leaving Friday morning for West VA for the summer ride up there. I'm about 40 minutes south of Va.Beach (Moyock, NC) just across the state line. I can offer you (and the wife) a place to stay should you want to come down that far and I'll be glad to tour guide you through the Outer Banks if you want to head further south.
If you have base access, there are plenty of bases in the area that you could find lodging at.
If you have base access, there are plenty of bases in the area that you could find lodging at.